Attracting The Partner You Need Rather Than Want
It is common for people to have a long list of desirable qualities that they want in a romantic partner. However, it is important to understand that what we want in a partner may not always align with what we actually need in a relationship.
In order to attract a healthy and fulfilling partnership, it is important to focus on attracting the partner we need rather than the partner we want:
Understanding Your Needs: The first step in attracting the partner you need is to understand what your needs are in a relationship. This includes emotional, physical, and mental needs that are essential for you to feel fulfilled and satisfied in a partnership. Consider what you need to feel secure, loved, and supported, and make a list of these essential needs.
Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations: It is easy to get caught up in a long list of desirable traits that you want in a partner, but it is important to understand that no one person can meet all of your expectations. Letting go of unrealistic expectations can help you focus on what is truly important in a relationship, and attract a partner who can fulfill your core needs.
Focus on Compatibility: When attracting a partner, it is important to focus on compatibility rather than simply attraction. This means looking for someone who shares similar values, interests, and goals, and who is compatible with your lifestyle and personality. Focusing on compatibility will help ensure that you and your partner are on the same page, and that your relationship has a solid foundation for growth and fulfillment.
Be Open to New Experiences: To attract the partner you need, it is important to be open to new experiences and to step outside of your comfort zone. This can involve trying new activities, meeting new people, and being open to new perspectives and ideas. By being open to new experiences, you increase your chances of attracting a partner who is compatible with your needs and values.
Be True to Yourself: To attract the partner you need, it is important to be true to yourself and to communicate your needs and values clearly. This means being honest and authentic in your interactions with others, and being open and transparent about what you are looking for in a relationship. By being true to yourself, you attract a partner who is compatible with who you truly are, and who can support and fulfill your needs in a relationship.
Attracting the partner you need rather than the partner you want is about understanding yourself. When you find your desired needs and once you feel emotionally connected, then be focused on that specific person without engaging yourself to multiple people at once.
Yours truly,
Michelle & Co.
