Five Reasons Why You Still Feel Undesired Even Though You Try So Hard

Five reasons why you still feel undesired even though you try so hard:

  1. Low self-esteem: If you have a low self-esteem, it can be difficult to believe that someone would find you desirable. This can lead to feelings of insecurity and self-doubt, which can be a barrier to feeling desired.

  2. Unrealistic expectations: If you have unrealistic expectations of what it means to be desired, it can be difficult to feel desired in reality. This can lead to feelings of disappointment and inadequacy.

  3. Past experiences: Negative past experiences, such as rejection or abuse, can affect your perception of yourself and make it difficult to feel desired.

  4. Comparison to others: Comparing yourself to others, either in real life or on social media, can make it difficult to feel desired. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

  5. Lack of self-care: Neglecting self-care can lead to feelings of undesirability. Taking care of your physical, emotional and mental well-being is important in feeling good about yourself, and feeling desired.

It's important to remember that everyone's experience and perception of themselves are unique and valid, and that feeling desired is not the only measure of self-worth. And self-worth is not dependent on being desired by others, it's something that comes from within. It's important to focus on your own self-care and self-growth, and not compare yourself to others.

Thank you for reading.

Yours truly,

Michelle & Co.

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