It’s time to heal your love addiction.
Stop worrying and sabotaging. Become more secure and build healthy, loving relationships.
Have you felt insecure your whole life?
Constantly pretending? Low self-esteem? Hard time trusting others?
Sabotaging your relationships? Craving intimacy yet feeling unwanted?
You are not alone.
These are all symptoms of what is called an anxious attachment style. Psychologists found that 1 in 5 adults use this style to guide their relationships.
It is something we inherit from our childhood relationship with our parents, so it’s rarely our fault. Yet, it seems like it’s in charge of our life.
Anxious attachment causes us to obsess over whether someone wants us, is texting us, or is just thinking about us.
And when they don’t? We resent them and withdraw. And the negative feelings take over, leaving us paralyzed and unable to function in life.
The good news?
You can heal and become secure
Let me know if this sounds familiar.
If you are single:
Dating almost takes up your entire mind. You’ve been trying to find intimacy for a while. But, you just cannot seem to find the right connection, even though you have so much going for you.
You try to exercise, travel, read, learn instruments, buy nice clothes, work on yourself, and go to gatherings and meetups. All in hopes that one day you will finally be enough.
Yet, it seems most people don’t see that. They might give you compliments, but it doesn’t feel like you’ve gotten anywhere. And the times you do finally connect with someone, it just doesn’t feel right.
You might still be in contact with your ex(s), or you cannot seem to fully move on from them. If you’ve never had a relationship, you feel like you will never fully find love.
It feels very difficult to you, yet it seems easy for others. You blame your looks, personality, or situation. Yet, deep down, you know you’re actually a decently attractive person.
Why is it so hard to just find love… such a basic human need?
If you are in a relationship:
You wake up and go to check your phone, hoping for a text from your partner. If you don’t see a loving text, you feel weird and anxious, sometimes even resenting them.
You go about your day, they are always on your mind. Yet, you don’t know if you are on theirs. You hope that they will one day finally see your value and want you as much as you want them, but it never happens.
You find yourself pursuing them as they distance themselves. The intense intimacy you had in the beginning of the relationship seems to fade away each day. You’re with someone, yet you feel alone and insecure.
They try to meet your needs, yet it never feels enough. You constantly think about pulling away or breaking up. Your pride is shaken. You feel trapped and there’s no way out.
Sometimes, if you’re dating someone secure or more anxious than you, you may find the opposite dynamic happening. You may find them coming closer, while you constantly pull away, feeling lost.
Why can’t you just relax and be in a happy, stable relationship?
How do I know all of this?
Because I’ve lived through it my whole life.
Hi, I’m Nour
I’m the founder of Love Addicts. Just like you, my attachment style is anxious. But I don’t like to use that word anymore. Let’s use “love addict” instead, shall we?
I’ve struggled with relationships and confidence my whole life. No matter what I did or who I dated, I always felt I wasn’t enough.
One day, I had enough. I went back to school and studied psychology at the University of Amsterdam. I also hired a confidence coach and read every book I could find on love, relationships, and happiness.
I developed an entire framework to keep my attachment at bay, and finally feel secure. It’s built on proven therapy strategies and a safe community.
Because I know how painful it is, I want to help as many people as I can. So I’ve made it my mission to share my framework with you.
It all begins with a decision. Do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling like this?
Or would you rather embrace your nature, finally feel lovable, and get your needs met?
Here’s how to heal…
There’s only one way to heal anxious attachment: by changing the belief system you currently hold about yourself and about other people.
This means you have to become someone who believes they are valuable, lovable, trusting, social, and able to find love and intimacy easily.
But that feels impossible when your thoughts and feelings are working against you all the time, right?
That’s where Love Addicts comes in. We’ve put together the only system in the world that heals your anxious attachment and helps you become more secure.
With Love Addicts, 3 things will happen:
You will change your beliefs about yourself and start thinking like a secure person.
You will belong to a safe community that you can come to for support in anxious times.
You will have access to a psychologist who provides professional feedback when needed.
Everything you need to heal…
After studying thousands of people and relationships affected by anxious attachment, we’ve distilled three necessary things that are needed to heal:
The right knowledge, beliefs, and skills needed to soothe and heal your attachment.
A safe community of supportive people to come to in times of emotional struggle.
Direct access to a psychologist who can help when needed, by providing reliable advice.
With Love Addicts, you have all three elements in one place to help you become your most secure self.
What’s Included In Love Addicts?
In short, everything you need to feel secure, once and for all.
Therapy Courses:
You will receive access to 11+ courses on every aspect of anxious attachment. These courses will show you exactly what to do to turn your life and your relationship around.
Course breakdown:
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The basics. What is anxious attachment, where it comes from, how it manifests, and how you can heal it.
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A course that teaches you how to integrate value, acceptance, lovableness, trust, and extroversion into your life.
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How to regulate your emotions in a healthy way, without damaging your relationship with someone.
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How to develop a healthy identity in which you are your own individual and can express yourself.
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How to build and maintain a healthy relationship that lasts, and is full of love, intimacy, and desire.
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How to open up to others, be vulnerable, and invite connection into your life.
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How to develop a healthy and positive self-image that will help you feel comfortable and secure with anyone.
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Develop the ability to define your boundaries, set them, and voice them to others when needed, in a healthy way.
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Understand people with an avoidant attachment style so you know how to deal with them, and protect yourself.
And much, much more! Including meditations, weekly content and session recordings, and daily posts.
Community and Psychologists:
Once you join Love Addicts, you will be part of a community of over 300 people going through the same attachment style.
The community contains spaces and a chat where you could post or vent, and is moderated by psychologists who will answer all of your questions.
Access To Weekly Therapy Sessions
Twice a week, our psychologists go live for 1 hour in a group therapy session about anxious attachment.
You can join these sessions for free, and ask questions during each one.
Love Addicts also comes with the following bonuses:
Free notebook: Join within 30 minutes of completing the quiz and receive a free Love Addicts notebook
Heartbreak Remedy: A proven approach to heal and get over any breakup by coach Omir Dzelilovic
Personal feedback: You can send your current situation to our psychologist and receive feedback on it
Are you ready to stop obsessing about others, become secure, and be present in your life again?
How do I get started?
If Love Addicts helped you become secure and find fulfilling relationships, what would it be worth to you? Personally, I would give anything for that.
Love Addicts is very popular. We get around 30 applicants each day. And we have a limited number of therapists and professionals.
For that reason, we only offer Love Addicts for 3 months. We believe that’s just enough time for you to become secure. (even though, some people start to feel a noticeable difference in the first 2 weeks)
Once all spots are filled, we will open the waiting list.
The cost to join Love Addicts is only $397 one-time for 3 months of access.
Our guarantee: We believe so much in our approach, and we’ve seen it work for hundreds of people, that if you don’t feel it’s helping you within 2 weeks, we will give you a full refund.
So, do you want to heal your anxious attachment? Please take the attachment quiz to make sure this is for you. If it is, you will be taken to the sign-up page.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How fast will I become secure?
Most students experience their first shift in how they feel about themselves within 2 weeks. However, we believe it takes the full length of the program (3 months) to see a lasting change. It really isn’t all that complicated once you have the right guidance.
Q: What results can I expect?
Love Addicts is based on proven psychology methods and therapies. After being on Love Addicts for a few weeks, you will feel the following changes in your life:
You will feel more comfortable around people
You will see yourself as a valuable and worthy person
You will start loving yourself more, and worrying less about what others think
You will know how to deal with anxiety whenever it comes up (which it will)
Your relationships will improve as a result of you becoming more secure (secure is attractive!)
Other people might notice you becoming more confident, calm, and happy
You will find it easier to be social and find love
If you are in a relationship, you will have a lot more clarity about the relationship
Q: Is there a guarantee?
Yes! We believe so much in our approach that if you don’t feel you’re becoming more secure within 2 weeks, we will give you a full refund.
312 Members And Growing.
What Are They Saying?
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"This program has probably saved my relationship with a girl I love."
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"I’m 3 weeks out from the FINAL breakup and beginning to heal, feeling strong enough for the first time to not fall back to him. Thank you Nour for this community!"
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"I’m so glad I have this program to fall back on. I’m glad we can all share and grow together. "
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"This website has helped me so much! Every time I log on I understand myself better and realize I’m not crazy!"
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"Listening to the courses has really helped me understand what not to continue doing! It's not easy but I started working on this a week ago and it's helped "us" tremendously!"
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"I didn’t realize how much I really needed it until I sent my first chat last night and it’s already made a positive impact on how I communicate my feelings with my partner! Really grateful for this outlet."
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"I feel really grateful to have discovered this support. Hearing myself within the description felt so relieving because I know that I am on the way to getting the help that I need."
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"Thank you. I'm grateful to have found you and this community. It has literally begun to help within the first day."
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Even just coming here and sharing the front page of the website with my GF to help her see that others experience what I do has helped tremendously.
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"Such a relief to understand why I act the way I do. This website has helped me tremendously!"
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"The courses provided on this website not only has given me new coping mechanisms to overcome my neediness and clinginess, but it also has given me tools to learn how love myself."
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"Nour - great work at explaining your knowledge in a way that is easy to understand and process. Your work is an answered prayer."
Ready to finally heal and become secure?
Join Love Addicts Today!
Before you join, we want to make sure you actually are anxiously attached so we know we can help you.
The quiz is free and only takes 1 minute to complete. By the end of it, you will know your attachment style.
If you are a love addict, you will receive an invitation to join.
Begin the quiz to see if you can join!
(Quiz length: 10 questions)